fix: Add test to check patch for FlowSynchronizationException

[adwk67]

Description

This PR adds a kuttl integration test that deploys a 2-node NiFi cluster with a flow containing the same controller service identifier at both root and child group level (with different property values), waits for the cluster to be healthy, then disconnects a non-coordinator node via the REST API, deletes the child-group CS on that node while it's disconnected, and reconnects it. When the node reconnects, the coordinator's flow triggers a COMPONENT_ADDED diff for the child-group CS, which hits the synchronizeControllerServices bulk path — and without the patch, updateControllerService is called on the still-ENABLED root CS, causing an FlowSynchronizationException that throws the node into an infinite disconnect/reconnect flap loop.

Tested with stackabletech/docker-images#1481 (Nifi 2.9.0)

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