lib: adding --watch-pattern to support watching files/dirs with glob

[louiellan]

Closes #45182

This adds the --watch-pattern cli option to Node.js, which allows to watch files and directories with the use of globs. This PR is a non-breaking change opposed to --watch-path option supporting globs since there could be instances where some glob characters are used (e.g., file[1].js) which could be treated as a glob and may cause breakage on existing scripts.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 89.36%. Comparing base (55b7d28) to head (bf21496).
⚠️ Report is 49 commits behind head on main.

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Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/fs/glob.js	90.72% <100.00%> (-1.27%)	⬇️

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[louiellan]

I've added another PR for supporting glob on --watch-path option #59478 just in case if it is ever decided that we would go through with the breaking change

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